tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post1688751000147148081..comments2023-07-28T03:18:51.255-07:00Comments on Child of the Universe: BitterDeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00703271881840189656noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-66989056083269905272013-05-20T20:02:00.105-07:002013-05-20T20:02:00.105-07:00You need to be angry. Take that time. It is an exp...You need to be angry. Take that time. It is an experience we all have to go through during this shit. I wish I had advice on how to stop comparing your grief and challenges with the people around you. But I can't help because I do that all the time. My therapist tries to help me, but she is not succeeding lol. My only advice is to find an outlet or two - blogging, exercising, screaming into a pillow, food fights, etc! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-77543888106605655492013-05-19T18:51:34.063-07:002013-05-19T18:51:34.063-07:00Dee, losing a baby is hell and you are entitled to...Dee, losing a baby is hell and you are entitled to feel angry and upset and even mad at the world. And it is possible to feel grateful for what you have and still upset over something (someone) you don't. Right now just try to get through one day at a time and take the best care of yourself you can. And know we are out here in cyberspace sending all our support. You can also contact us anytime if you need to "talk."Mimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14594061750426441635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-48919903545361915902013-05-17T21:02:59.540-07:002013-05-17T21:02:59.540-07:00(((Hugs))) Life sucks sometimes. "This too sh...(((Hugs))) Life sucks sometimes. "This too shall pass."Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01735004277469505083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-23389019529644011402013-05-17T19:42:14.009-07:002013-05-17T19:42:14.009-07:00You shouldn't feel guilty or embarrassed. Grie...You shouldn't feel guilty or embarrassed. Grief can make you feel so many emotions that can have you feeling all over the place. Let yourself heal by whatever means necessary and know that what you are going through is normal. My struggles these past few years have also made me feel things that I never thought I could. I get it. I'm just so sorry that you are going through this. xoSuzanne https://www.blogger.com/profile/17076109137436674891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-66627669855219964122013-05-17T13:49:11.665-07:002013-05-17T13:49:11.665-07:00I agree with the ladies above. There is nothing wr...I agree with the ladies above. There is nothing wrong with how you feel right now, you're going through a lot and these feelings are very normal! And I VERY much agree with the paragraph on God/religion. I've been struggling with those feelings since the miscarriage as well. I don't just don't understand how things work. I know everyone so commonly says, "well this is God's plan for you"...but why does "the plan" include everyone getting happy endings through their dysfunction while we go through hell after hell? I'll just never understand it.Meg Brinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13145498404632121576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-52803878422916799392013-05-16T20:58:35.999-07:002013-05-16T20:58:35.999-07:00I don't think you should be embarrassed at all...I don't think you should be embarrassed at all. What you are going through is completely normal. It is your mind and body's way of shutting down and focusing on healing. It doesn't leave much empathy for anything else. Also, it makes sense that it would bring up old pain. Just as long as you don't get stuck there and slowly, bit by bit, you can move out of it. Take care of yourself and talk to people who make you feel better.JustMehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02493032821722724778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7867172600811948277.post-24268946747238196572013-05-16T19:53:56.198-07:002013-05-16T19:53:56.198-07:00Don't be too hard on yourself. You are only hu...Don't be too hard on yourself. You are only human and these are natural feelings. The important point is that you are aware of your emotions and are keeping yourself in check to ensure you don't let them overtake you. It's okay to feel negative feelings sometimes, but I think as long as you also remind yourself of your blessings, you balance yourself out. Sending you tons of good vibes my friend xoGypsy Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026496787029080243noreply@blogger.com